I Do the Cooking at Home, Not My Wife : Banky W Shares Why Their Marriage Works

Nigerian singer and actor Banky W has opened up about an interesting dynamic in his home, revealing that he, not his wife Adesua Etomi, handles most of the cooking in their marriage.

Speaking candidly, Banky W explained that every relationship has its own rhythm, and what matters most is finding what works best for both partners. For him and Adesua, sharing responsibilities in a way that aligns with their strengths has helped build harmony in their home.

According to the singer, cooking is something he genuinely enjoys, and taking charge of the kitchen allows Adesua to focus on other areas where she excels. He emphasized that marriage is not about rigid gender roles but about teamwork, understanding, and mutual support.

Banky W noted that many people still hold on to traditional expectations about who should cook or clean, but he believes couples thrive when they create their own rules rather than follow societal pressure. In his words, a peaceful home is built when partners complement each other instead of competing over roles.

His revelation has sparked conversations online, with many praising the couple for redefining modern partnership and showing that love thrives where there is flexibility and respect. Others highlighted how his statement encourages men to participate more actively in domestic responsibilities.

For Banky W, the goal is simple: a happy home where both partners feel valued, supported, and free to express their strengths. And if that means he’s the one wearing the apron, he’s perfectly fine with it.

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